It is so important to have someone to talk to when dealing with difficulties in our relationships. Talking with others can help us see our problems from other perspectives. But often, after our problems are resolved, our loved ones can not let go of the past difficulties. It is important not to air our dirty laundry around our friends and loved ones too much as this may create resentment in those whom are trying to protect us from pain. Often, we are not as quick to talk about all the great things our lover does so our friends get a lop sided view of things. Therefore, it is important to have an impartial person to talk to, who is not emotionally invested in our happiness, when things go off in the wrong direction.